I checked my bike and I fiddled around with my helmet,
taking my time to suss him out. If he planned on mugging me, I wanted to face
him. I wanted to see him coming. I wanted it to happen on my own time, and not
by surprise. I wanted to look him in the eye.
After half-a-minute, the moment had passed. I decided he
wasn’t going to do anything. He had receded deeply into the shadows. My bike
was firmly locked up (twice!). I went into the store with no thought now but my
empty stomach.
As I approached the counter to pay for my box of Kraft
Dinner (yes, I was desperate), a visibly shaken man rushed into the store and
asked to use the phone. Someone had just attempted to mug him a few yards from
the entrance. The assailant’s description fit what I had seen, and the mugging
was attempted at knife-point and with pepper spray.
So why didn’t the mugger attack me? Who knows?! But I know
what I did: I stood my ground. I looked. I assessed. By taking my time, by
owning my space, I let him know I controlled this situation. Above all, I
listened to my instinct and I didn’t dismiss it as paranoia. All these things,
I learned in my IMPACT class in 1995. My self-defense skills still work, 17
years later. Next time, I will call attention to a creepy person before they
have a chance to act, now that I trust my gut feeling. Nine-One-One!
When I graduated from the Core Program, my instructor,
Margaret, said “Congratulations! Now that you know how to fight, you might not
have to do it.” In this case, she was right: the other self-defense skills I’d
learned stood me in good stead, preventing the need for full-impact
self-defense. The confidence that I could take him down increased my
understanding and awareness of what might be going on. And the evening’s bonus:
my bike and I rode home in style, in the squad car.
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